
So, in my "little town" there is only 1 food place with a play set. they have a McDonalds - no play yard - LAMEST thing ever~~
Anyways, it's mostly ok by me because I hate those nasty things! I know what kind of germs infest the place because I have been with or heard of moms bringing their kids to McDonalds for a fun outing cause "they have been sick home all day" to you moms, i am sorry, but I strongly despise you - even my friend ones!
But today, I took my kids to the only one in town. And as I was enjoying my chat with my mom-in-law, Mia (4) came running out crying hysterically (never found out why) So I decide it is time to check on Kaylee (2) and I see her timidly standing on a step with kids flying by her. She is trying to come down, looks a little sad - but nothing drastic. Just before I walk in, out of the blue this boy just walks past her and PUNCHES her in the gut! Kaylee did NOTHING but be small so this stinkin' little boy just punched her cause he could! Kaylee of course started balling and MOMMA BEAR came out. I wanted to Yank if off the play set and put him in the corner - but there were to many kids and it was to far to climb after him. So I scolded him. He looked at me so I am 98% sure it was the right kid. And I took my crying baby out to hold her. IAM SICK OF PARENTS THAT DON'T DISCIPLINE their KIDS! Seriously I was a teacher - and have seen what spoiled little snots people are raising now a days.
That said - maybe that is just how "boys are" you are thinking - I say it is just an excuse.
So once the I matched the mommy to the boy - i gave her a talking to too. YES THAT IS THE KIND OF MOM I AM. (Someone needs to educate) Oh yes, and what did she do, the same thing as she always does I am sure - which is why the kid is a snot. "oh johnny, if you can't play nice then . . . " blah blah I walked out. I didn't need to hear any more of that.
WANNA know what I would have done? I would have taken that stinking ice cream cone from his hand, trashed it and he would have sat in a corner for a while. YES THAT IS THE KIND of MOM I am. I have really well behaved girls. They aren't perfect - but they aren't punks.
In fact, As I was writing this I had to take a break to DISCIPLINE Mia. CAUST THAT IS THE KIND Of MOM I AM.
(Mia had actually Bitten Kaylee! She has never done that! I asked her why, she told me, and I told her it was wrong, then I explained it was a bad enough thing that she had done, she was going to get spanked, and hard. Then I turned her over my knee and OH YES THAT IS THE KIND OF MOM I AM. (cause she needs to know when things are really serious.) And then she went to the corner. (THOSE are great by the way - cause they have them EVERY WHERE. Stores, church, school, friends. . . ) After wards we talked about why you would NEVER ever do anything like that. That is was a bad thing to do etc. I also hinted that Santa would be making a note of it. Her comment back was that if she kept it up she wouldn't be able to go to disneyland either. OH YES! Teach them, and then they will even come up with better punishments. :)
Sorry about the soap box. I am pretending to write to that mother. :) Made me feel a bit better!